Attraction Prioritization.

I don’t care how good you are at "gaming" if a guy comes up to me and puts the moves on me, I'm not going down on him.
Ever.
I'm not gay.
There has to be a small spark of attraction to begin with. You as a woman if you don’t have looks to begin with, chances are, you're not going to get laid by very many men.
The men that you get are not going to be the alpha male of your dreams.
There is hope for you though.
I am going to list the attraction priorities' that your typical man has.
You know women have a same prioritization.
A woman will typically give room for error if you meet specific criteria.
If you are initially good looking, this automatically buys a guy a few moments, until he opens his mouth.
But even a relatively ugly fellow can walk up to your average woman, can get attraction, from displaying certain characteristics'.
If the guy is confident, this buys him a whole lot more time.
Why?Because confidence is the most important thing for women, whereas looks is not.
For men , however, looks are priority number one. Just as confidence is number one for women.
Number one is of course
.
LOOKS . If you are not hot.. or somewhat good looking, chances are, were not going to approach you. Unless we are desperate, or drunk (in which case both of them you probably don’t want anyway.)
There are things you can do to increase your looks.. which I have already stated on this page.

NUMBER TWO
Being able to speak.. and carry on a conversation.
The reason its number two is because if your a brain dead bimbo... a man is going to get what he wants out of the relationship.
You have provided looks already, so hes going to make use of them. Its really that simple.
Everyone takes what they want out of the relationship. If they are not getting something out of it, they leave it. But again, you're giving him looks, which means hes going to use those for sex.

Not only this, but men will get bored, and typically frustrated if were on a date with you and you cannot bounce conversational information back to us.
Give a man a bit more to work with.
An alpha male knows that when we first met you the conversation typically goes 90-10.
Where the guy talks most of the time, and the woman give illusionary input.
She will give one or two word answers,- which gives the woman the illusion that shes actually speaking with the man.
This kind of conversation ends after introductions have been made and your are feeling comfortable with him.
Your typical good conversation should be about 60-40 meaning you give more information than you receive.

Typically this must happen because the other person needs something to feed off of.
You can take a conversation like a tennis match and go 50-50, but pretty soon, you need a new game. Something new to talk about, which is where the other 10% comes in.
Both parties need to have the mindset of talking 60-40.
If you don’t, we get bored with you and want to talk to our guy friends, and will have a lot of "guys night out"

Then you wonder why your boyfriend won't talk to you.

It's not that we don’t want to.. it's because you don’t know how to carry a conversation.
So many guys complained to me that their girlfriends and their dates would give one or two word responses, or they would be really nervous on a date with a guy, not knowing what to say.
There are techniques you can do, like take an Improv class. Or just look at a conversation and pay attention to KEY words.

Like this: "I went FISHING today and saw a PLANE in the sky."
You could either bring up topics about fishing (I know boring for most women)
OR
You could ask him about the plane.
"have you ever been on a plane?"
Or
"Have you ever been to a foreign country?"
There are plenty of conversational tricks out there, and maybe ill include some more of that in another post.