10 ways to get a man

1: Go out in groups of no bigger than three. Larger groups of girls are supertough to approach. Three is a good number because your two friends can keep each other company when a guy walks up to chat with you. And when he does, step away from your friends and let him have some one on one time to get to know you.

2. Smile genuinely. So obvious, right? But I can't stress it enough -- and I can't believe I ever acted aloof in an attempt to seem more cool. Now I know that women smile all the time naturally (when they are nervous, when they are trying to be polite, etc.), so if you don't do it at all, you look unapproachable.

3.Work the eye contact. To reel him in from across the room, tilt your chin down a bit and flash him a couple of sultry glances. (Guys love it when you look up at them -- it makes them feel manly.) If the guy across the room is so gorgeous you have a hard time looking straight at him and are simply too nervous, fake it by focusing on the tiny area right between his eyes. He won't be able to tell the difference.

4: Don't immediately ask him what he does. Some men think all women are gold diggers. A lot of guys hated being asked what their job is. It's that fear-of-being-used thing again.

5: When you're out on the town, you're supposed to be having fun, and any complaint ("It's hot in here!"), pessimism will pretty much pokes a hole in the fun-girl aura you should be projecting. Some better small-talk topics: recent vacations, favorite bands, hilarious movies. You can hit him with your deep, dark world-view some other time.

6: Make small talk and approach at least one person you find attractive every day. If the idea of small talk gets you tongue-tied, relax. Start simply and slowly. Remember, this doesn't have to be rocket science. You don't have to think of the wittiest conversation-starter ever. The goal is to just get the ball rolling. Potential conversation-starters can be as simple as:
Hi. (Seriously, that counts!)
They may not always be interested, they may not always be available, but by getting into the practice of noticing and acknowledging them, you're more likely to spot the ones who are interested and available when they present themselves to you.

7. Do some research for a fun singles' activity, i.e. online dating, speed dating, a networking mixer, or Sierra Club hike and go for it. Find a cause near and dear to your heart and volunteer on a Saturday or Sunday. You never know who you'll meet!

8. Research some guy topics. Football, videogames, etc. Hey, it might turn out that you like them.- plus it will give you something to talk about and bring commonalities.

9. Learn how to cook so that way when he suggests a particular date, you can return the favor by making him a nice meal, or by cooking together creating a romantic dinner date.

10. Dont immediately get sexual with a man, make him feel comfortable first. Wait to show sexual interest after he has spoken for a while.
When women immediately show sexual interest they think a few things
1. Is this woman a prostitue/slut?
2. Am i being tooled? (tooling is when women fake sexual interest to gain attention. I.e. dancing with a guy she thinks is gay, or that 70 year old man.)
We like to feel that you like us for us, not just that were any man that just happens to be convienient.
A man will sometimes put up with a womans blantant sexual moves in the first seconds of the interaction, but its hard to take them seriously.
Not because we dont want to, but because we think that she must do that to all the guys and were not special.
Men like to feel that a woman is being selective by choosing us. Easy for us, and hard for others.

4 easy ways to make your man always come straight home from work.

1. When he gets home from work, greet him with love.
-the last thing we want to do when coming home from our crappy job is to hear about how crappy your job was.- At least let us settle down a bit and eat or rest.

2. Suprise him with sex when he arrives home. (wear that special nighty that we bought you, which we all know was for us anyways.)- Or at least a blow job... i mean thats not much to ask is it?

3. Have a good meal prepared for him. (it just has to be something he likes- it can be KFC for all we care)

4. Attempt to gain interest in the things that he likes (sports, etc) it can build commonalities and make for a better relationship overall.

Relationships are about reciprocity, and if you start doing these things we will notice and we will be happier and so will you.