Making women better

Adding value.

2009-02-06T00:35:00.000-08:00

10 reasons why women are more insecure than men.

2009-01-30T01:09:00.000-08:00

1. Men don’t worry about personal hygiene. Honestly men could walk around unshaven, with yellow pit stains and not care. Women will shower 3 times a day just to make sure they don’t smell.. most men just don’t care.

2. Men can walk into a room and fart and not care. In fact, most of the time it's funny. Unlike women who claim that they never fart, or when they do, it smells like strawberries. You women will hold one in until your blue in the face.. or powder your nose.. when really you're just going to the bathroom to cut one.

3. Men don’t have to lie about sex. Is the reason you are inviting a man upstairs to meet your pink pet rock Suzie, or is it something else?

4. Men don’t care if other people find out that they had sex with a woman. (ok if the man finds out that the woman was really a man.- but sometimes not even then) In fact, the first thing a man does is call his best friend to tell him all about it.

5. Men don’t worry about fashion. "Damnit Bill..that man over there is wearing the same color of Jordans I bought yesterday… I'm going to kick his ass!" - that’s not something you will find come out of a mouth of your typical straight man. They just don’t care.

6. Men don’t worry about what other men think about them. Men will date whoever they want. they don’t need the approval of their parents or their friends. How often do you hear the word "cuntblock." Men will often go out alone to party. Women always must travel in groups. Even if it's at a party with tons of cops, where it's impossible for her to get raped.

7. Women constantly compare each other's bodies to their own. they worry about how fat there are compared to all other girls. Guys, just don’t care. Besides many guys are too homophobic to be staring at another man's pecks or penis In the shower.

8. They all wish their breasts were bigger. (sure men have the same thing with their penises)However…. Breasts can fill out a sweater, penises are judged by not only being flaccid but erect, not to mention its nearly impossible to tell a man's size. Women know it's not very lady like to ask a man to drop his pants to determine his manhood. Men, intrinsically understand this, which means women have it worse and are thus, more insecure.

9. Men don’t have to paint their faces in order to look hot. Many women won't leave the house, or even go shopping for eggs, without making an event out of it. Men will simply fall out of bed, scratch their butts, and then go… and sometimes without realizing what they even have on.

10. Men wont risk getting an std, by simply having sex with a woman, just to get her to like him. When it comes to sex, most men care about themselves.

How men really rate women.

2009-01-24T00:15:00.000-08:00

A true alpha male man, will view a woman as the complete package – I mean he spends time bettering himself, and he should expect to get no less.

He wants to make himself a better person and grow and develop. Do you? So we factor that into the equation – and the result of that equation shouldn’t be a number from 1 to 10 - it should be either you like her or you don’t. But sometimes when we run into a situation where we have to choose between two people, this is where the scale comes into play.
Although It doesn’t matter what your friends think. It doesn’t matter what people on the internet think. To your typical alpha male all that matters is that we are approaching the woman that we want to approach and that were giving ourselves the greatest opportunity to meet someone who’s going to rock our world.

Personal choice does come into it, however. Some guy might say he likes short fat girls, and another might rightly say that I like ice cold Russians. But, we all have to agree that there is a universal 10. Someone can say that the short fat girl is his perfect girl but I don’t think she can be called a 10 since she won’t be viewed as that by the majority and so is “easier” to pull (all other factors being equal).
The societal 10 is either:

The playboy model (curvy, Brazilian style)
The fashion model (natural, skinny, Russian style)

A thin waist, big boobs, good skin, nice hair, beautiful eyes are pretty much universal. If a girl lacks one of these things then she is not as hot as she could be.

Problem for me is that i’ve never seen a perfect 10. I’ve seen only a handful of 9s.
I just can't imagine anyone being perfect. And most guys would agree and we don’t expect you to be either.
Which means that if we think you are attractive, it doesn’t matter that you don’t look like Angelina or Pamela.
What matters is that you are hot to us.

Attraction Prioritization.

2009-01-23T01:18:00.000-08:00

I don’t care how good you are at "gaming" if a guy comes up to me and puts the moves on me, I'm not going down on him.
Ever.
I'm not gay.
There has to be a small spark of attraction to begin with. You as a woman if you don’t have looks to begin with, chances are, you're not going to get laid by very many men.
The men that you get are not going to be the alpha male of your dreams.
There is hope for you though.
I am going to list the attraction priorities' that your typical man has.
You know women have a same prioritization.
A woman will typically give room for error if you meet specific criteria.
If you are initially good looking, this automatically buys a guy a few moments, until he opens his mouth.
But even a relatively ugly fellow can walk up to your average woman, can get attraction, from displaying certain characteristics'.
If the guy is confident, this buys him a whole lot more time.
Why?Because confidence is the most important thing for women, whereas looks is not.
For men , however, looks are priority number one. Just as confidence is number one for women.
Number one is of course
.
LOOKS . If you are not hot.. or somewhat good looking, chances are, were not going to approach you. Unless we are desperate, or drunk (in which case both of them you probably don’t want anyway.)
There are things you can do to increase your looks.. which I have already stated on this page.

NUMBER TWO
Being able to speak.. and carry on a conversation.
The reason its number two is because if your a brain dead bimbo... a man is going to get what he wants out of the relationship.
You have provided looks already, so hes going to make use of them. Its really that simple.
Everyone takes what they want out of the relationship. If they are not getting something out of it, they leave it. But again, you're giving him looks, which means hes going to use those for sex.

Not only this, but men will get bored, and typically frustrated if were on a date with you and you cannot bounce conversational information back to us.
Give a man a bit more to work with.
An alpha male knows that when we first met you the conversation typically goes 90-10.
Where the guy talks most of the time, and the woman give illusionary input.
She will give one or two word answers,- which gives the woman the illusion that shes actually speaking with the man.
This kind of conversation ends after introductions have been made and your are feeling comfortable with him.
Your typical good conversation should be about 60-40 meaning you give more information than you receive.

Typically this must happen because the other person needs something to feed off of.
You can take a conversation like a tennis match and go 50-50, but pretty soon, you need a new game. Something new to talk about, which is where the other 10% comes in.
Both parties need to have the mindset of talking 60-40.
If you don’t, we get bored with you and want to talk to our guy friends, and will have a lot of "guys night out"

Then you wonder why your boyfriend won't talk to you.

It's not that we don’t want to.. it's because you don’t know how to carry a conversation.
So many guys complained to me that their girlfriends and their dates would give one or two word responses, or they would be really nervous on a date with a guy, not knowing what to say.
There are techniques you can do, like take an Improv class. Or just look at a conversation and pay attention to KEY words.

Like this: "I went FISHING today and saw a PLANE in the sky."
You could either bring up topics about fishing (I know boring for most women)
OR
You could ask him about the plane.
"have you ever been on a plane?"
Or
"Have you ever been to a foreign country?"
There are plenty of conversational tricks out there, and maybe ill include some more of that in another post.

10 Ways to be more attractive

2009-01-23T00:55:00.001-08:00

1. Smile more. If you smile more, stastically it improves your looks and makes your more approachable.

2. Wear flats. - (I know you love your heels,*yes it makes your legs look better but the consider the trade off* but how often do you find it makes guys shorter, thus making you less attracted to men, and men less attracted to you. Most men I've spoken with have agreed that they like a woman to be shorter than them. Men like to feel sexually dominant and powerful, and the woman being shorter allows that to happen. Wearing flats can give both people what they want.)

3. Get breast implants. (look. men like boobs, deal with it.. we don't give a crap if they are fake or not, unless one looks like a M&M and the other is a watermelon.)

4. Work out. (we like women to be toned and thin. We like women to look healthy, evolutionarily speaking a woman who is healthy can live longer and probably has good genes which means they can reproduce better offspring.)

5. Get a tan. (tan fat always looks better than white fat.)

6. Learn how to wear makeup. (most men don't think clowns are hot. and makeup can work wonders if done properly)

7. Stop wearing layered clothes that drape. (they make you look fat.)- Unless you are fat than i guess you have to, but youre not really fooling anyone. thats as bad as a man shaving the middle of his head and comb it over and thinking it looks good.

8. If your fat, don't wear things that show flesh. This includes halter tops and skin tight clothing that is normally reserved for strippers, Its gross...Men don't like it, we see that and are reminded of why we don't want to have sex with you, or even talk to you. If your fat, wear lots of black, or use that as an excuse to go Goth, which a lot of women who are fat tend to do.- and then pretend to like the trend.

9. Stop being bitchy. (this means overall attitude in the way you walk and snub your nose at people)- you would be amazed at the negative body language women are not aware of that they are doing to people. And they are doing it to friends and people that they like, out of habit. Men will put up with a lot if you are hot, but pretty soon were going to leave you if you are mentally draining. And as for the movie and the book "he's just not into you?" Here's a clue... if your hot, and not a bitch... he's into you.. period. I'm not going to hang up on Angelina Jolie if she keeps calling me and acts "needy" Sorry.. it's just not going to happen.

10. Take care of your mouth. Whiten and straighten your teeth, this includes taking a breath mint or at least brushing regularly. Being a guy I never thought that it would be a deal breaker, but it was when I spoke to a model that had death breath that I realized that it was important.

10 ways to get a man

2008-11-18T22:14:00.000-08:00

1: Go out in groups of no bigger than three. Larger groups of girls are supertough to approach. Three is a good number because your two friends can keep each other company when a guy walks up to chat with you. And when he does, step away from your friends and let him have some one on one time to get to know you.

2. Smile genuinely. So obvious, right? But I can't stress it enough -- and I can't believe I ever acted aloof in an attempt to seem more cool. Now I know that women smile all the time naturally (when they are nervous, when they are trying to be polite, etc.), so if you don't do it at all, you look unapproachable.

3.Work the eye contact. To reel him in from across the room, tilt your chin down a bit and flash him a couple of sultry glances. (Guys love it when you look up at them -- it makes them feel manly.) If the guy across the room is so gorgeous you have a hard time looking straight at him and are simply too nervous, fake it by focusing on the tiny area right between his eyes. He won't be able to tell the difference.

4: Don't immediately ask him what he does. Some men think all women are gold diggers. A lot of guys hated being asked what their job is. It's that fear-of-being-used thing again.

5: When you're out on the town, you're supposed to be having fun, and any complaint ("It's hot in here!"), pessimism will pretty much pokes a hole in the fun-girl aura you should be projecting. Some better small-talk topics: recent vacations, favorite bands, hilarious movies. You can hit him with your deep, dark world-view some other time.

6: Make small talk and approach at least one person you find attractive every day. If the idea of small talk gets you tongue-tied, relax. Start simply and slowly. Remember, this doesn't have to be rocket science. You don't have to think of the wittiest conversation-starter ever. The goal is to just get the ball rolling. Potential conversation-starters can be as simple as:
Hi. (Seriously, that counts!)
They may not always be interested, they may not always be available, but by getting into the practice of noticing and acknowledging them, you're more likely to spot the ones who are interested and available when they present themselves to you.

7. Do some research for a fun singles' activity, i.e. online dating, speed dating, a networking mixer, or Sierra Club hike and go for it. Find a cause near and dear to your heart and volunteer on a Saturday or Sunday. You never know who you'll meet!

8. Research some guy topics. Football, videogames, etc. Hey, it might turn out that you like them.- plus it will give you something to talk about and bring commonalities.

9. Learn how to cook so that way when he suggests a particular date, you can return the favor by making him a nice meal, or by cooking together creating a romantic dinner date.

10. Dont immediately get sexual with a man, make him feel comfortable first. Wait to show sexual interest after he has spoken for a while.
When women immediately show sexual interest they think a few things
1. Is this woman a prostitue/slut?
2. Am i being tooled? (tooling is when women fake sexual interest to gain attention. I.e. dancing with a guy she thinks is gay, or that 70 year old man.)
We like to feel that you like us for us, not just that were any man that just happens to be convienient.
A man will sometimes put up with a womans blantant sexual moves in the first seconds of the interaction, but its hard to take them seriously.
Not because we dont want to, but because we think that she must do that to all the guys and were not special.
Men like to feel that a woman is being selective by choosing us. Easy for us, and hard for others.

4 easy ways to make your man always come straight home from work.

2008-11-09T07:54:00.001-08:00

1. When he gets home from work, greet him with love.
-the last thing we want to do when coming home from our crappy job is to hear about how crappy your job was.- At least let us settle down a bit and eat or rest.

2. Suprise him with sex when he arrives home. (wear that special nighty that we bought you, which we all know was for us anyways.)- Or at least a blow job... i mean thats not much to ask is it?

3. Have a good meal prepared for him. (it just has to be something he likes- it can be KFC for all we care)

4. Attempt to gain interest in the things that he likes (sports, etc) it can build commonalities and make for a better relationship overall.

Relationships are about reciprocity, and if you start doing these things we will notice and we will be happier and so will you.

Women and personal hygene

2008-10-28T04:35:00.001-07:00

Seriously women, please take a tic tak.

I can remember on more than one occasion where women just fail to remember a couple of things.

1. Deoderant.
2. Breath mints.

Just because your super attractive and men love you, doenst mean that you skip out on those.

For example:
I was approached by this really attractive blonde woman. Most men would die of dehydration over the amount of drool they lost.
She approaches me and i think "wow. shes pretty good."

And she opens her mouth, and satan himself punched me in the face. So i bolted.

I actually found myself turned off.
It was odd.
Her georgous looks were overshadowed by halatosis.

I was actually shocked that i even cared.

I had this bet with a friend of mine that we were going to try and set up one of my girl friends and have her go out on the town.
But she would not take a shower, smell really really bad, and dress horribly, but still wear awesome makeup.
It was a brief social experiment that we were going to do. * i figured that men would still approach her and not care about the smell*
I was soo wrong, and of course she probably never would have agreed to it.
But before i could even ask this hit me.

It actually turns out that we men do care about that stuff.
Which weirded me out more than anything.
Logistically i thought for sure the looks would be more powerful.
Nope i was wrong.

The deoderant thing is a different story.
I mean, how do you tell a woman that she smells like wet garbage?

Its a paradox indeed.

Whats terrible is that most women have friends that will let them walk around all day and possibly for several days without saying a word.

Then a stranger has to tell them and they get pissed at them.

Then later on they feel relieved, but its too late to thank them, the stranger is gone.

Men understand why sometimes you dont shave your legs every day, (especially when you think no one will see them later, i.e. the bedroom) but how hard is it to take a tic tak?
I mean, seriously.

Men and one night stands

2008-10-28T01:27:00.000-07:00

Ok for those of you that have a hard time about men and sex, heres the real answer.

Men dont only want sex. In fact its actually not the most important thing to us.

The media depicts men as heartless sex starved animals that only want to take what we want from women and dump them off at the side of the road.

While this may be true for some men, but even for most of them they do it because the woman at the time drove them to it, or some other woman in the past did.

The great thing about men that most women dont realize is that most of the things that we do is because of women.

They dont realize how awesome that truely is.

Of course the media depicts this as the reason they do it is not because of women, its because of sex.
While there is a direct correlation, its not the reason.
Men equate physical touch to feelings of intamacy, and feelings of affection. When women respond in this same way, men understand on a very deep biological level that the woman must like them.

There is the old saying treat people as you would want to be treated.
This is what men do.
So when you see a man and he approaches you by saying something that most women find appauling, dont get pissed.

Take this for example:
"Hey baby lets have sex!"
Pretty bad, YES?

Its not really, not from the deep understanding of what men truely are.

You see, men are very direct, and they really want to be.
They dont like beating around the bush.
Sure some are only after sex, and even most of those few dont really understand why they feel that sex is the answer.

It took me a while to realize this.
Mindless sexual gratification, no matter how great, just didnt compare to the deep feeling of intamacy that you can share with a member of the opposite sex.
Plus i immediately recognized the same kinds of feelings when it would be a one night stand or sex with someone i didnt know. The difference, i realized is this: one is a small spark, the other an atom bomb.

Many people try and fill a metaphorical hole in themselves.
They do it with sex, with drugs, with religion, etc.

Men have this same hole, the same desire to pair bond.
However its distinctly different than a womans.

Men are attracted to Replication and everything that goes with it.
"Health indicators" "Youth charachteristics" and Child rearing indicators.
Anything genetically benifical towards having offspring, men are attracted to.

Women are actually attracted to Survival
Things like "having other options- i.e. other women in the mans life"
"Having muscles" (providing protection)
Confidence (signs of leadership)
"Populatiry" (safety in numbers)
"Height" (feelings of dominance/power)

So when a man comes up to you and says "lets have sex" hes just trying to cutt through all the fluff and get what he wants.
Men have been taught all our lives to be productive and efficiant.
We want to produce offspring, and we want to be efficiant (i.e. fast)

One of the problems of course is that women have to be selective in their pair bonding.
Which is why they test men.
However, let me say this:
When you test someone (regarless of who) they usually fail.

Im not advocating getting rid of tests, what im saying is that your tests need to be BETTER

You cant expect most men to not make mistakes every once in a while.
Especially when men try new methods of social interactions all the time.

If your really attracted to someone, and they say something retarded be a bit more open minded.
Sure your attraction is gone, but sometimes it comes back, just give most guys room for error.

Imagine if men did this:
"if she says the word sweetie one time, im leaving."

Dont be caught up in mens desire to have one night stands either.
Most men actually prefer long term pair bonds, because it means easier access to sex.
Which is why men like booty calls also.

However, booty calls are something men settle for if they cannot emotionally connect with someone.
Most men dont even understand this themselves. Not to mention most men wont admit it.

Some men try and convince themselves that its somehow "manly" to hit it and quit it.
When we all know that its bull.
Plus most of this has to do with the media programming.

Just realize that while mens primary contributors for attraction is sex and looks; mens primary reason for pair bonding isnt.

10 ways to a happy relationship

2008-10-10T01:13:00.000-07:00

1. When a guy approaches you, don't fall back on the one strike and hes out rule.
(how many times do guys notice that if they say or do one thing wrong, its the back turn.)
I know tons of cases where the guy came back later and they ended up happily married.

2. Let the man be in control and in charge. (its either that or have him be an emasculated wuss boy who you are not attracted to)

3. Learn how to give yourself an orgasm so that you can tell him how to give you one.
If you don't know figure it out.

4. Learn how to be better at sex. (most women feel sexual satisfaction is the mans job- remember there are two people involved here.)

5. Stop feeling entitled for things. (drinks, romance, etc) if you feel entitled to something, you expect it and then it loses its appeal. Not to mention it pisses us off and we will dump you or never even ask you out.

6. Approach men who you are interested in. (Stop feeling entitled for romance)

7. Pay for the date sometimes. If its a first date, dutch is always ideal. Why should men spend money on a stranger, what are we, charity? Truly if its the alpha male of your dreams, hes probably been on lots of dates.
Look at it this way, as a guy i go on lots of dates. Most dates are logistically going to be a waste of money and time.
The ideal date is one that eventually ends in at least a long term relationship of some kind.
Most of them are, by sheer odds, going to end badly.
So the man has to waste money on a woman who he doesn't know and then eventually hated?

There are 2 reasons men pay for dates.
1. They feel they have to and regret it later.
2. They are emasculated wussies and believe in female entitlement and explain it away by saying things like "its making them feel like a woman."
Well if paying for you makes you feel like a woman, than a woman has a price tag.
A woman with a price tag is a prostitute.
Or they say "its about gender roles."
-Again, how is the man in control when hes the one paying?
Putting a woman on a pedestal is not a role that men should want to be in.
When men put a woman on a pedestal, women have no choice but to look down on them.
(if going dutch repulses you, men will be repulsed by you.)

8. If you initiate sex more to your partner than he does, he will love you forever.
If a woman at least appears to have a stronger sex drive than a man, he is likely to be happy.
-there is a reason why men try to find nymphos.

9. Realize that men use sex and physical touch to show affection, and reciprocate in turn.
- Not every time a man touches you means that we want to fornicate.

10. Be open to communication. (if you don't like something tell us) Realize that sometimes we go out with a girl that likes to be touched or treated a certain way. If you don't like those things, its easier for you to tell us than us having to assume.

2008-10-10T00:48:00.000-07:00

Women hate sex.

2008-10-09T23:59:00.000-07:00

Honestly women must hate sex.

There are a couple of reasons for this.

If someone finds out that they just ate a turd sandwich, what do they say?

"I didn't know there was a turd in it."
Compare that to: "I didn't know that him asking me up to his apartment meant he wanted sex."
Or:
Slipping on a banana peel, falling and breaking your arm.
"I don't know, it just kinda happened." Might likely be your answer.

Compare that to:
"I don't know, it just happened." - Which women love to use.

Look at it this way, if someone were to offer you an ice cream cone would you refuse it and spit in their face?

No.
Obviously that would be rude.
Unless you really really liked ice cream and then you would probably take it.

Most people who are prostitutes are of the female gender.
Why is this?

When asked what people thought of their jobs, what do you think their responses were?
They hated it.

Most of the time when people exchange a service for money, they don't typically enjoy the service, otherwise you wouldn't have to pay them for it.
They would already be doing it for free.

Why do you think men have to be the aggressors when it comes to sex?

Look at it this way, If your friend really wanted to go shopping and you hated shopping would you go?
Maybe, because hes your friend, but there is no way you would bring it up yourself.

Suppose you had something better to do?
Would you bring up excuses if you didn't want to tell him that you didn't like shopping?
You bet you would.
Responses like "i don't feel good. I have a headache." might be some of your responses.

If you could get a hundred thousand dollars for someone punching you in the face would you take it?
Most people probably would.

That doesn't mean they liked getting punched in the face.
Just because women sleep with men doesn't mean they like sex.

Men and women both understand that some women do it to get what they want.

Look at the clothes women wear and the media.
Sex sells.
It gets people to buy their product.
It gets men to do what they want.
If women were dressed badly with no makeup at a club, chances are no drinks are going to be bought for them.

Would women get breast implants, spend hours getting ready in front of a mirror, spend thousands of dollars on makeup if they felt that they didn't have to?
Of course not.

Then you have the women who sleep with men and act as if they are doing them a favor for sleeping with them.

Most men would rather cut off their genitals than feel manipulated by sex.

Why would a man want to sleep with a woman he loves with full knowledge that she hates it?
Would cutting off our genitals make women feel more at ease?

PLEASE NOTE.

I don't think women hate sex, but sometimes they sure act as if they do.

Women and clubs.

2008-10-09T22:54:00.001-07:00

This is written by a man to help women understand men.

OK here are the issues i have with women and clubs.

Its the only place that you will see women get all dressed up to perfection, other than their wedding day. There are reasons for this, they do this so that they can compete with other women to get to the top 1% of the men in the club. This top 1% of men typically are what is considered to be the "alpha male" or the "tribal leader."
I asked my sister once why she went to clubs, and she said this to me: "to go out and have fun."
Here's the real difference between a man who goes to a club and a woman, a man will admit that he goes there to score, or at least meet someone. Women on the other hand always use "plausible deny ability" and will use it to a fault.

The reasoning for this is mostly based off nurture.
Lets look at Cosmo for example.
In Cosmo they tell women how to "flip your hair to meet mister right." To "how to dress flirty."
And 50 different ways to let him know your interested.
Whats alarming is you never read "how to talk to a guy and seduce him." or "how to approach seductively and win your man." Or even "how to beat out the slut that stole your man."
Honestly, its rather alarming that some women say that they don't want to be approached by a guy in a club. Truthfully that's a lie. They just don't want to approached by anyone that doesn't fit that top 1% of guys in the club.
This is coming from a guy who is that top 1%.
I see friends of mine get shot down, time after time.
I laughed once when a woman yelled at a guy cursing at him "f***" off! she yelled, waving her hand in his face.
Of course she came to me in her own defence "I really wasn't trying to diss him." she explained.
I thought to myself. (Your actions speak so loudly i cant hear a word you say)

Ok suppose you make it to where your that top 1% or it gets late in the night and women have decided to settle on you because your their 2nd or 3rd draft pick.
Then what happens?

Honestly most women who go to clubs tell themselves and their friends that they are not going there to meet a guy. *remember plausible deny ability*

Why is it that women want equality in the workplace and socialism in dating?

If women are supposedly mens equals, than why is it that men have to do the approaching all the time?

To make matters worse, in a club when women approach men, we have to wonder: is she tooling me like she just tooled that other guy?

Most women travel in packs, so it makes it difficult for men to approach, because they are evolutionary hardwired to fear the approach. Plus if they approach they have complete and utter understanding that the probability of them being cock blocked by one of the woman's friends is pretty likely.

Ill give you an example.
I had this underwear model guy who was a friend of mine, brad pitt wouldn't even measure up to a pimple on this guys butt.
Suffice it to say, he approached this group and this woman was totally into him. However, what happened though is one of her friends kept butting in.
"Are you going to be ok?"
"Do you need a ride home?"
"Your not going home with him are you?"

Do you really think that she really cared about her friends safety?
NO.
Women know that its very unlikely that a guy is going to stab them if they leave with them.

She was concerned about herself and the well being of the group.
You see if she goes home with my friend and someone else finds out about it, she could be viewed as a slut. Probably the fact that he was attractive wouldn't even factor in.
If she allows her friend to go home with him, she could intern be guilty by association.
She could look like a slut too.
If three girls roll into a club and some people find out that one of them just got done blowing a guy in the bathroom, then they all get labeled as sluts.

Which is why sometimes you will see fat or ugly girls with attractive women.
It does a couple of things.
1. It keeps the women in check and allows for cock blocking.
2. It makes the attractive ones better by comparison.

So my underwear model friend of mine ended up going home with her and sleeping with her.
She still barely went with him, because she kept having to consistently backwards rationalize it to her friend.
Women have consistently admitted to me that their views are incredibly dependant on what their friends think of them.

Which brings me back to the other issue.
Women understand that if they continue to shoot other guys down who approach them, it increases their value.
Most women at clubs are about getting validation from men while simultaneously not accepting their approaches.
Women also harm their chances with getting with the top 1% of men when they tool guys at clubs.
Picture this: A guy who is 60 years old at a club who is dressed funny and people are laughing at him.
Then you as an attractive woman goes up and starts griding on him.

When women do this at clubs it decreases your value in the eyes of the alpha man.
Plus it makes you look like a bad person.

Remember your making fun of someone at their expense and that's not cool.

Plus what about buying drinks for a woman?
Cant do that.
Otherwise your supplicating right?
That's not the only problem.
Most women who have had drinks bought for them from guys, it was because the guy didn't have anything else.
The drink was all he had to get her attracted.
Women understand this, and your just the next guy.
And some think that your just doing this to get them drunk so that you can sleep with them.

So, even if we approach, get your friends to like us and even you like us, we still have to deal with a mess of other issues.
1. Interuppts (men and other women butting in)- *attempting to cockblock*
2. The one strike and your out mentality (in this case the woman is already attracted- but you could still *mess it up*)-
3. Your last minute resistance. (everything all hot and heavy and then for some reason beyond even a womans understanding you want him to stop)

You combine all of this with all the negativity against men in the media and you have men not approaching at all.

Men know that most women go there just to get oggled by men and to compete with other women.
Plus some of them go hoping that they will meet a celebrity or someone famous.

They also have this idea that all men want is sex, and thats all.
Thats pretty narrow minded.
So i guess all men are heartless jerks that dont care about relationships at all.

Its as if we dont like being loved at all.

On top of all of that they make the association that says, if hes at a club that thats all hes there for, and thats all he ever cares about.

In other words, if your at a club than your only looking for sex.
So, can the same thing be said for women?
No women at all.. EVER?
I suppose not.

The idea that no decent men, or decent women goto clubs is a lie.

I asked my sister who is married now if she would have gotten married to her husband if she met him in the club.

She quickly responded "hell no."

Theres the problem.