Friday, October 10, 2008

10 ways to a happy relationship

1. When a guy approaches you, don't fall back on the one strike and hes out rule.
(how many times do guys notice that if they say or do one thing wrong, its the back turn.)
I know tons of cases where the guy came back later and they ended up happily married.

2. Let the man be in control and in charge. (its either that or have him be an emasculated wuss boy who you are not attracted to)

3. Learn how to give yourself an orgasm so that you can tell him how to give you one.
If you don't know figure it out.

4. Learn how to be better at sex. (most women feel sexual satisfaction is the mans job- remember there are two people involved here.)

5. Stop feeling entitled for things. (drinks, romance, etc) if you feel entitled to something, you expect it and then it loses its appeal. Not to mention it pisses us off and we will dump you or never even ask you out.

6. Approach men who you are interested in. (Stop feeling entitled for romance)

7. Pay for the date sometimes. If its a first date, dutch is always ideal. Why should men spend money on a stranger, what are we, charity? Truly if its the alpha male of your dreams, hes probably been on lots of dates.
Look at it this way, as a guy i go on lots of dates. Most dates are logistically going to be a waste of money and time.
The ideal date is one that eventually ends in at least a long term relationship of some kind.
Most of them are, by sheer odds, going to end badly.
So the man has to waste money on a woman who he doesn't know and then eventually hated?

There are 2 reasons men pay for dates.
1. They feel they have to and regret it later.
2. They are emasculated wussies and believe in female entitlement and explain it away by saying things like "its making them feel like a woman."
Well if paying for you makes you feel like a woman, than a woman has a price tag.
A woman with a price tag is a prostitute.
Or they say "its about gender roles."
-Again, how is the man in control when hes the one paying?
Putting a woman on a pedestal is not a role that men should want to be in.
When men put a woman on a pedestal, women have no choice but to look down on them.
(if going dutch repulses you, men will be repulsed by you.)

8. If you initiate sex more to your partner than he does, he will love you forever.
If a woman at least appears to have a stronger sex drive than a man, he is likely to be happy.
-there is a reason why men try to find nymphos.

9. Realize that men use sex and physical touch to show affection, and reciprocate in turn.
- Not every time a man touches you means that we want to fornicate.

10. Be open to communication. (if you don't like something tell us) Realize that sometimes we go out with a girl that likes to be touched or treated a certain way. If you don't like those things, its easier for you to tell us than us having to assume.

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